Life is chaotic and full of responsibilities. With juggling work, cleaning, cooking, teaching, and all that goes with being a mom, it is hard to spend quality time with your little ones. Even a few minutes a day means the world to them and they will remember those times for a lifetime. Here are 15 ways you can spend quality time with your child with less time.
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Every child change the lives of those who love them, it’s a given. Each of my children have changed my life in unique ways. From the first child turning me into a Mother, to the last one who beat every single obstacle that came his way.
All of my children went through high risk pregnancies, all of my pregnancies had me in hospital bed rest for months, and the kids were all born between 38 and 22 weeks (38, 30, 28, 24, 22 weeks). Needless to say that life was never normal or the same after each birth. By the grace of God, all of the kids are healthy as can be and more active than they should be!
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Of all of the kids, the youngest went through the most obstacles, during pregnancy and right after birth. On 4 occasions between pregnancy and birth we were told that there was less than a 10% chance of him making it. He made it, and has continued to amaze us.
When Anthony was in the NICU (Neonatal Intensive Care Unit), I would speak to him, constantly telling him that he had to fight, he had to prove the Doctors wrong, and he had to get better so he could come home and be loved and cuddled. I promised him that I would make sure that he was always taken care of. It’s been a Family affair, he takes advantage of being the baby of the Family; but we all are okay with that.
When a baby comes into your life, you want to be a better person for that baby. Babies bring out the best in each of us. They make our lives better. And that’s why there’s nothing each of us wouldn’t do to make life better for babies.
Fighting through 3 near death experiences while I was pregnant with him made me make certain goals and promises, not only to him; but for myself as well.
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Since he has been born, I have made sure to be more affectionate with the kids, something my Mother always restrained from doing. I also have made sure that I let them be kids, enjoy life, so many things that I wasn’t allowed to do as a child.
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My Husband Doesn’t Always Feel He Is “Doin’ Good”. Truth Is: He Is Amazing!
My Husband Doesn’t Always Feel He Is “Doin’ Good”. Truth Is: He Is Amazing! I know first hand what it feels like when you think you are not “Doin’ Good” as a parent. As a Mom of 6, it’s something that I battle with often; but I see that my Husband also has that problem; or fear. In his eyes, because we live paycheck to paycheck at times, it’s a reflection of him not doing his best for us. Truth of the matter is, he does an amazing job!
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When I was 4 years old my Father passed away, I saw and was present through it all, and after the funeral; I fell into a “deep sleep” The Doctor said it was the first case of “self-induced coma” he had ever witnessed. I slept for 3 months. When I woke up, my Mom and my Uncle were next to my bed, they were so happy to see me, I recall it so clear. I was confused why they were so happy to see me; I was just waking up from a nap is what I thought. The next week we moved to Mexico to live with my “Grandma” Ma’Maria, my Grampa, my 2 Uncles and my 2 Aunts (In Mexican tradition, the children live with the Parents until they marry). My Mom had a major breakdown from my Father’s death.
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Have people ever told you that you’re a great Mom and you didn’t feel like one?
Have you ever told someone that they are a great Mom and they told you they didn’t feel like they were?
I can tell you that many people have told me countless times that I am a great Mother, a good Mother, and a wonderful Mother;
and every single time I responded with “I don’t feel like one”
Truth be told, not many of us Mothers ever feel like we are great. We are our worst critics, I know this first hand.
Let me tell you how I came to the realization that I am not as bad of a Mother as I thought myself to be.
Last October our lives changed drastically. During one week we lost ALL of our material possessions. On Tuesday the kids and I were in a terrible car accident, with only liability insurance; our SUV was totaled. The next morning, while we were in the hospital, someone broke into our house and stole everything from my back office and home store (we didn’t have renter’s insurance). Two days later, while at the grocery store, our neighbor called us to say that our house was on fire (still no renter’s insurance). In one week we went from living happy normal lives, to being homeless.
As we watched our house go up in flames, I continued to try to calm my kids down by telling them that at least we were all safe and together, that the worst was over. Since that night we started our 4+ months of hotel & shelter living. We relied solely on clothing donations and Prayers, and every time I had the chance I always told my kids that this would be an adventure we would laugh about in the future. I always tried to make jokes, play games, cuddle; anything I could to make sure they knew they were loved. Months passed and a week before Christmas another tragedy happened. Their Great Grandmother passed away, one that they were very close with. Our Family took another hit. But I kept reassuring the kids that things would get better, to keep their spirits up. After Christmas a wonderful organization donated $1,000 to our Family and we were definitely going to use it towards clothes for the kids. New Year’s came and we celebrated that we had made it through the year. Hoping that the worst was behind us, we hugged and enjoyed our night. A week later, on Jan. 6th, I got one of the worst calls in my life. My husband called me to tell me that our God-Daughter of 5 months had passed away. Bella was our world, my kids adored her and they were all so close.
Our world once again broke, this time it was harder than the rest. You can rebuild from a fire, but you can never replace or erase the pain from loosing a baby that you were all so close with.
The next week, while spending the entire day at her funeral and the evening at the re-pass, we packed up and were heading back to the hotel; when I looked in my wallet I saw that someone had stolen the $1,000 that were donated to us.
Another hit to our Family and to our hopes of things getting better. That night Bella’s parents (Sam & Dom) came to live with us at the hotel since they couldn’t bear to go back to their home where Bella had passed.
About one and a half months later, we got word that we could move back into our rental, we were all so hopeful for a new beginning. When we arrived, it was so hard. The landlord left the walls covered in soot from the fire and dirt and debris from the construction. It was hard for my children and for us adults. We moved through it and cleaned up ourselves. We were able to get a dining room table at the thrift store and I recruited the kids to help me sand it and make it into a chalkboard table, the biggest adventure for us yet was going to be rebuilding. For a few weeks we slept on blankets on the floor and had no couches either, but I never once stopped telling the kids that this was just temporary. That this was our biggest adventure yet, and it was our glam way of camping until we can afford furniture. I never saw them cry, they always understood, supported, encouraged, and were grateful for anything and everything.
I cried often, broke when they were asleep, hated my life at times, but always remained Faithful that things would get better, they had to. I loved seeing my kids tell other people the stories of what we had been through, their responses to the shocks were priceless; they always responded with something to the tune of “we’re just happy that we are together” or “we’re glad that we are all alive”. Always gratitude and always joy. I never took any credit for this, why should I; it was their beautiful hearts.
Last week I had a breakdown, a big one. I cried to a friend and told her how big of a failure I was as a Mother and how certain I was that I had ruined my kid’s childhood.
She went on to give me not only every example she has from knowing me as a Mother, but also everything my kids have ever done, said, acted like; because of my influence in them.
- She pointed out how my daughters dare not wear short shorts or low cut tops, not because I have ever told them they can’t; but because it’s the way I dress and they have chosen to be a bit more modest than all of their middle and high school friends.
- She pointed out how my children have come through possibly the toughest 5 months of their lives, and have never stopped smiling.
- She pointed out that my children’s Faith is so strong because they see how strong my Faith is that things will be okay.
- She pointed out that despite the million bad things we have ever gone through, I have some of the most well mannered children she has ever met.
- She pointed out that my kids went through 15 years as Military kids and survived 6 deployments without ever falling apart; she credits that to me but I give them the entire credit.
- She went on to tell me that I have taught my kids so much, that I have made them into the strong independent and resilient kids they are today; because I am a great Mother.
- She reminded me how my kids are the only kids she has ever known that never walk by me without telling me they love me, or giving me a hug, or a kiss; because she knows it’s what I always do to them.
- She told me that my feelings of helplessness and inadequacy are normal, and as normal as they are; I am always so much better than I feel I am.
You know what? She was right, I have always been so focused on all of the things I haven’t done with my kids yet, on all of the wrong things I did, on all of the short comings I have had; that I never sat and thought about all of the good things I have done.
I AM a Good Mom, I have moments when I am a better Mom, a greater Mom, and even moments when I am a not-so-great Mom (just ask my kids when they are grounded);
but she’s right…
I am always Doin’ Good!
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With having 6 kids, you must know that I have plenty of embarrassing and funny stories, but like everyone; I have a favorite.
It was 14 years ago, my oldest daughter was a baby; 7 years after my first-born (which makes me almost a first time Mommy again).
My In-laws had come to visit us, I had the baby all dressed up in a pretty dress; it was the second time they were seeing her. After an exhausting afternoon time with her Grandparents, she needed a nap, so Grampa offered to go feed her and put her down for her nap. As a Mommy of a newborn I was a bit worried when Grampa hadn’t returned after over 30 minutes, so I went to go check on them. The sight I saw was to this day, one of the sweetest things ever; picture Grampa curled up on the bed with the baby in her best dress. I ran and got my Husband, Mother in law, and took a picture. It was always one of my favorite pictures of her and one of the sweetest memories of her and her Grampa; with whom to this day has a super close relationship with AND UNFORTUNATELY; that beautiful picture was lost in our house fire. The funny and embarrassing part? [Read more…]